self-help Archive

  • The number of blessings each of us has is virtually unlimited.

    A Lesson in Gratitude

    When the teacher is the student
    The number of blessings each of us has is virtually unlimited.

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  • About 3 years ago, after reading perhaps the 100th self-help guide telling me I should simply

    Happiness

    You can't buy it for a million bucks!
    About 3 years ago, after reading perhaps the 100th self-help guide telling me I should simply "decide to be happy," I decided to put aside my lifetime of cynicism and simply give it a try.

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  • Settling when you're an explorer could be a big mistake. Embrace your inner explorer and discover the exciting new horizons beyond the next mountain range!

    In the Land of Business, are you a Settler or an Explorer?

    You may not want to start on that fort until you know if you're gonna stay!
    Settling when you're an explorer could be a big mistake. Embrace your inner explorer and discover the exciting new horizons beyond the next mountain range!

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  • I was talking to a two-year-old the other day, and you know what they told me? “No”. A lot. This finely-honed skill possessed by a typical two-year-old is unfortunately part...

    Just Say No

    And Leave Yes-terday Behind You
    I was talking to a two-year-old the other day, and you know what they told me? “No”. A lot. This finely-honed skill possessed by a typical two-year-old is unfortunately part...

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  • Do you ever talk to yourself? Maybe you should. I’m always a little surprised when I ask people I’m working with if they’ve ever heard of or put to work...

    Stuart Smalley Was Right

    You ARE good enough, smart enough, and doggone it, people DO like you.
    Do you ever talk to yourself? Maybe you should. I’m always a little surprised when I ask people I’m working with if they’ve ever heard of or put to work...

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  • The other day I was standing at an intersection, waiting to cross the street. A local panhandler asked the man in a business suit standing next to me “can you...

    Fear And Making Change

    Our attempts at seeking security may be the most common cause of our fears.
    The other day I was standing at an intersection, waiting to cross the street. A local panhandler asked the man in a business suit standing next to me “can you...

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  • I’m always happy when I see someone cruise through college, get a job they love, and live a happy life well into their forties. Of course, if that were the...

    Who The Heck Do You Think You Are?

    And just what do you think you're doing?
    I’m always happy when I see someone cruise through college, get a job they love, and live a happy life well into their forties. Of course, if that were the...

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  • Have you ever noticed there is always stuff that gets in the way of the things you want to do?

    All the Stuff that Gets in the Way of the Things You Want To Do!

    You know it's gonna come up
    Have you ever noticed there is always stuff that gets in the way of the things you want to do?

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  • How often do you hear someone say “How about next week? This week is CRAZY!”, or “I’d love to, but I’m just SO busy”? Recently a friend of mine who’s...

    Do You Have Too Much on Your Plate?

    Or do you just need a better fork?
    How often do you hear someone say “How about next week? This week is CRAZY!”, or “I’d love to, but I’m just SO busy”? Recently a friend of mine who’s...

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  •   I just finished reading a really interesting book. It’s called Sway: The Irresistible Pull of Irrational Behavior The authors are Ori and Rom Brafman, and I highly recommend it....

    Save the World, Make a Million Bucks

    But Not at the Same Time!
      I just finished reading a really interesting book. It’s called Sway: The Irresistible Pull of Irrational Behavior The authors are Ori and Rom Brafman, and I highly recommend it....

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