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		<title>Is Alcoholics Anonymous A Cult? - And if it is, would somebody teach me the dang secret handshake?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[The question of whether or not Alcoholics Anonymous is a cult gets asked a lot. And answered a lot as well. I used to ask the question myself, especially after...]]></description>
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The question of whether or not Alcoholics Anonymous is a cult <a href="http://www.google.com/search?btnG=Go&amp;q=is+alcoholics+anonymous+a+cult" target="_blank">gets asked a lot</a>. And answered a lot as well. I used to ask the question myself, especially after attending a few meetings years ago. The weird incantations and rituals at AA meetings made me feel like an outsider, and whenever I spoke to someone who&#8217;d been going to meetings for a while, I felt like they knew some secret code that they weren&#8217;t sharing with me or something. Something odd you&#8217;ll notice about the question &#8220;Is AA a cult&#8221; is that it usually is answered in the affirmative, with numerous pseudo-academic footnotes. You&#8217;ll also notice that the person asking and answering the question is often either a person who quit drinking without AA, or a person who thought they might have a drinking problem and &#8211; right or wrong &#8211; decided they didn&#8217;t. And then of course there&#8217;s the &#8220;God thing&#8221;, which I&#8217;ll address a little further on. The fact is that someone can really only come to the conclusion that AA is a cult by either being ignorant of its &#8220;organizational hierarchy&#8221;, or by simply deciding that that it&#8217;s &#8220;evil&#8221; because they don&#8217;t understand it. A person who doesn&#8217;t have an addiction problem will neither be concerned with, nor, frankly, have the ability to <em>understand</em> what&#8217;s going on within AA. And the millions of people who have benefitted from it certainly don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s a cult. The simple and readily observable fact is that AA is NOT a cult, and can only be identified as such due to resentful personal bias or ignorance, which are almost always the reason people label something a cult, as outlined in <a href="http://www.religioustolerance.org/cults.htm" target="_blank">this explanation at ReligiousTolerance.org</a>. So let&#8217;s take a look at a typical &#8220;cult checklist&#8221;, in this case, that of noted sociologist <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eileen_Barker" target="_blank">Eileen Barker</a>:</p>
<p><strong>1. A movement that separates itself from society, either geographically or socially</strong><br />
<strong> 2. Adherents who become increasingly dependent on the movement for their view on reality</strong><br />
<strong> 3. Important decisions in the lives of the adherents are made by others</strong><br />
<strong> 4. Making sharp distinctions between us and them, divine and Satanic, good and evil, etc. that are not open for discussion</strong><br />
<strong> 5. Leaders who claim divine authority for their deeds and for their orders to their followers</strong><br />
<strong> 6. Leaders and movements who are unequivocally focused on achieving a certain goal</strong></p>
<p>To me, this sounds more like a description of a member of one of today&#8217;s polarized American political parties than anything, but let&#8217;s address it in the context of Alcoholics Anonymous. I&#8217;m just going to present the list again, but with comments.</p>
<p><strong>1. A movement that separates itself from society, either geographically or socially.</strong><br />
AA does neither. You can find open meetings all over the world, and as AA literature makes clear, &#8220;The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop drinking&#8221;.<br />
<strong>2. Adherents who become increasingly dependent on the movement for their view on reality.</strong><br />
This is where a lot of misunderstanding probably occurs. AA in fact encourages self-sufficiency and personal responsibility, but most active drunks and addicts have neither, so AA encourages a support network through sponsorship and regular meetings.<br />
<strong>3. Important decisions in the lives of the adherents are made by others.</strong><br />
This is true in the early stages, but only to the extent that a &#8220;member&#8221; surrenders themselves to such decisions. In many cases, an addict or drunk could frankly do no better than to listen to the advice of those who&#8217;ve found some solid ground and for no reason other than their rediscovered compassion want to help others do the same.<br />
<strong>4. Making sharp distinctions between us and them, divine and Satanic, good and evil, etc. that are not open for discussion.</strong><br />
This is simply not an aspect of AA. In fact one of the key tenets of AA is to not judge others by one&#8217;s own framework, but rather to ask oneself what one&#8217;s responsibility in a situation is. Discussion is the cornerstone of AA, it&#8217;s what meetings are all about, and although there are meetings where certain kinds of discussion will be squelched, it is usually for the assumed benefit of the group discussion; for example, when someone tries to hijack a meeting as a &#8220;personal therapy session&#8221;.<br />
<strong>5. Leaders who claim divine authority for their deeds and for their orders to their followers.</strong><br />
AA has no leaders or hierarchy that controls individual meetings. Members of AA will often end up idolizing the founders or the people in their &#8220;sponsorship genealogy&#8221;, but this is nowhere outlined as a basic principle in the twelve steps.<br />
<strong>6. Leaders and movements who are unequivocally focused on achieving a certain goal.</strong><br />
Well, this one hits the nail on the head. It seems like everyone you talk to in AA has the mindlessly obsessive goal of&#8230;STAYING SOBER.</p>
<p><strong>AA&#8217;s Supreme Leader and Corporate Headquarters</strong></p>
<p>So this is where people who know little about AA get confused. The fact that there is a central organization called the &#8220;General Service Office&#8221; suggests that there is some kind of top-down hierarchy, but nothing could be farther from the truth. AA operates with an inverted pyramid style of governance that key founder Bill Wilson referred to as &#8220;benign anarchy&#8221;. Anybody could start a meeting, anywhere, at any time, and pretty much structure it however they wanted, as long as they stuck to the most basic principles. They could in fact do so even if they DIDN&#8217;T adhere to those principles &#8211; nobody could stop them &#8211; but that would be a pretty absurd pursuit. The General Service Office exists primarily to print AA literature, respond to public inquiries, and organize conferences. It&#8217;s right there in the basic principles that AA &#8220;<em>is not aligned with any sect, denomination, politics, organization or institution; does not wish to engage in any controversy; neither endorses nor opposes any causes</em>&#8220;. What seems to upset most people about AA is the simple fact that it doesn&#8217;t fit their rigid perceptions of life, culture, and organization. AA does no marketing, recruiting, or lobbying. You can&#8217;t become the leader of a group and keep power, and no-one can tell you when to come and go. Trust me, I&#8217;ve watched them come and go in my three years of recovery, and no-one was chasing them down as they went.</p>
<p><strong>The God Thing &amp; The Judge</strong></p>
<p>I think it&#8217;s pretty safe to say the &#8220;God thing&#8221; and court sentencing are two of the biggest contributors to the perception of AA as a cult. It&#8217;s unfortunate that the nation&#8217;s traffic courts often sentence repeat drunk-driving offenders to AA; although it may benefit a few of them, it&#8217;s completely antithetical to the principles of AA, and the enforcement of attendance at AA meetings is completely at the discretion of the legal system. AA has no interest in &#8220;gaining members&#8221; this way, and if AA regulars collectively DID have an issue with the practice, AA&#8217;s own principles would prevent barring such people from attending anyway. And the &#8220;God thing&#8221; I keep referring to? This is really where AA has some perception problems. It took me years to realize that addiction was in fact not a behavioral problem, but a spiritual problem, and I really believe a real addict has little hope of recovery without grasping this. But that doesn&#8217;t mean I robotically accept the usage of the term &#8220;God&#8221; and all the obviously Christian references in the AA oeuvre. I think it prevents a lot of people from discovering the benefits of AA, and makes the 12-step approach an easy mark for criticism.</p>
<p><strong>But Does AA Work?</strong></p>
<p>That&#8217;s often at the crux of the criticism. Does it &#8220;work&#8221;? My answer would be no. You do. But the principles of AA certainly aren&#8217;t WRONG, and do a lot more to enhance people&#8217;s lives, and nothing to harm them. And for me, they were the building blocks of continued sobriety and happiness that seems to grow continually. In an upcoming piece I&#8217;ll address why AA didn&#8217;t work for me for years, and why it suddenly did. The reason was shockingly simple. For now, I&#8217;m going to go do one of the many things I never had time to do when I spent all my time drinking. And I&#8217;ll quietly express thanks, something I learned how to do again with AA. Maybe I&#8217;ll pick up a copy of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1884365124/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=thewellcom-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=217153&amp;creative=399349&amp;creativeASIN=1884365124">Alcoholics Anonymous: Cult or Cure?</a><img class=" qiqnvvbynfrcogyexmyc qiqnvvbynfrcogyexmyc qiqnvvbynfrcogyexmyc qiqnvvbynfrcogyexmyc qiqnvvbynfrcogyexmyc qiqnvvbynfrcogyexmyc qiqnvvbynfrcogyexmyc qiqnvvbynfrcogyexmyc nubrxhwxvmbbnelvmnko nubrxhwxvmbbnelvmnko" style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=1884365124&amp;camp=217153&amp;creative=399349" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" />. It looks interesting.</p>
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